Leader Podcast 38
October 17, 2025
Week of October 19
Here are a few updates and reminders for leaders this week!
IMPORTANT UPCOMING DATES:
TIPS TO LEAD YOUR GROUP WELL AFTER YOUR FIRST MEETING
From the 60 SMALL GROUP TIPS By Vince Antonucci (adapted for our Grace Fellowship context) This resource is found in it’s entirety below.
Don’t try to be perfect. When you meet someone who acts like they’re perfect, does that impress you? No! At best, it makes you feel like you can’t relate. At worst, it makes you suspicious. People aren’t looking for perfect; they’re looking for real. Be real. Show some vulnerability. That will endear you to your people.
You don’t need to have all the answers. You may feel like, since you’re the leader, that you need to have an answer for every question. You don’t. People will understand if you say, “I don’t know. Let me try to find out the answer to that question this week.” Not only will they understand they will admire your humility. It also may inspire them to think they too could lead a small group.
Don’t be too formal. Don’t run your group like a business meeting. You are creating a spiritual family, and your meetings should have a fun, comfortable feeling.
Allow a little messiness. People are messy, right? In group we don’t want to put on a veneer of spiritual perfection that makes everyone feel like they can’t be real and admit their weaknesses and fears. Messiness can be intimidating, but it’s a breeding ground for grace.
View the people in your group as friends and family – not just group members. Affirm everyone who shares—even if they’re a little theologically off. It takes courage to share in a group.
Do things outside of group time. When you take the group outside of your meeting night and outside of your living room relationships will grow deeper, faster. People probably want to meet outside of group time but need you as the leader to initiate it. So, have everyone go out for ice cream, or meet at the park for a cookout on Saturday, or … you name it. Or, maybe once or twice a semester you meet at a homeless shelter where you serve dinner together.
In addition to social events outside of group time, you will want to have your group serve together. One possibility is to mention your desire for your group to serve together after a couple of meetings and solicit ideas for where you might serve. Or you can look for serving options in your community and then bring your suggestions to the group. The Local Impact Dept. at the church can provide opportunities.
One issue with doing things outside of group night, in our fast-paced overly busy society, is that people may say they want to but don’t have the time. One way of overcoming that issue is to do your non-meeting get-togethers on your group night.
SAVE THE DATES
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Below are some important dates and timelines specific to groups we want to be sure are on your calendar. We'll continue to update this information throughout the season!
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November 27 | Thanksgiving (no Thursday night services)
Week of December 14 | Last week of groups before Christmas break
Pastor Keith explains "Why Partnership?" at Grace. Feel free to send this resource to group members who are exploring Partnership with Grace.
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LEAD – Small Group Leader App
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